We recently found out we are PCSing. Which in terms of living the military lifestyle wouldn’t be so unusual, except up until about 2 months ago thought we would be retiring. I began to notice as the time ticked closer to “the date”, the detailer periodically would tempt DH with a few different jobs. Something that I imagine went like this: (since of course I only got one side of the story)
Detailer: So, are you SURE you want to retire. I have a hot fill set of orders. They are to Iraq, but think of the extra money you’ll make.
DH: No thanks
Detailer: You know, the (SSGN XYZ) has a spot open….they do cool stuff. Sure you want to retire? Port calls….new platform….etc…
DH: Yes, um well tell me more…
Detailer: Um, well as much as I’d love to send you there….what I really need is someone to go the (SSN ABC) as soon as possible, it’s a great boat, (insert all the AMAZING things that might tempt any red blooded Sailor who has been on shore duty way to long….)
DH: Let me talk to my wife…
Wife: What?!
DH: Well, they really need someone, it’s a hard to fill billet…. (at this point all I hear is 6 month deployments vs the sweet life of 3 month deployments on a Boomer)….blah blah blah
Wife: Seriously?!
I think I am still saying that….
…even after much prayer and thought.
At present our lives have shifted 180 degrees. As of about two weeks ago we officially have orders. Instead of planning a retirement ceremony, I’m now planning house hunting leave.
I’m not sure how all this is going to workout, but what I do know it is going to be a crazy summer. It’s hard to believe we moved here four years ago. That’s a long time in military time, just ask any milspouse. I was beginning to get very comfortable here, but now our worlds are about to get shaken upside down.
A few Good, Bad and Ugly parts of PCSing
The Good:
The chance of course to get rid of all things I haven’t used in the past 2 years….lets not get crazy, I still might need college text books.
House shopping
The adventure of a discovering a new place
The Bad:
Having to design my house to sell vs designed to live (that means no stationary bike in the living room)
Selling a house in a not so great housing market
Figuring out my job situation
Garage sale(s)
Having to find my new favorite places (i.e. hairstylists, Chinese food / take out place)
No more Corky’s
The actual “moving day”
Unpacking
The Ugly:
Saying good bye to friends and neighbors, this part is never ever easy.
Organizing and getting ready for the move.
Oh, and I forgot to mention 3 job offers have come through since our orders have arrived and one was A-MAZ-ING, leaving us both to wonder if this was the best decision. We are stepping out in faith. *Deep Breath*
I’m trying to wrap my brain around our change of course. I’m concentrating / trying to take comfort in the fact there will be thousands of military families like mine PCSing this summer. Let the adventure begin….for all of us!
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cross posted over on mymilitarylife
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